Who is who

Em nay, neu mot hom em biet duoc them mot phan nua ve chi, cai phan co lien quan den cau hoi chi hoi em hom nay, thi lieu e con coi chi la ban khong nhi? Co the co, co the k, nhung chac la no cung kha soc voi e.

Doi khi chi nghi, cang ngay chi cang thay thi dung hon la, chung ta noi rieng, va xa hoi noi chung hinh nhu cang ngay cang tro nen “critical” hon, tham chi co phan thai qua.

Vi du gan gui nhat la viec ta thuong “che bai” do an cua mot so nuoc. Ta lam dieu do k co ac y gi, nhung ro rang la ta to y che do an ho, vi no mui, vi cach ho nau, vi…. khac voi ta qua. Nhung “ngon” hay khong “ngon” suy cho cung cung chi mang tinh uoc le ma thoi phai k. Ta quen voi cai j, cai j hop khau vi ta se de thay no ngon hon. Chang vi the ma ta luon nho nhung nhung mon ngon hoi be minh duoc an. Mot mieng ngon di theo ta suot doi. Vi the ma dan My thi yeu thich Mac&Cheese, con ta thi so qua.

Neu dung la co tinh uoc le, thi viec ta che han la sai roi. Don gian la ta k quen, nhung k co nghia la no thuc su k ngon. Chi la k ngon voi ta ma thoi. Tat nhien cung co truong hop ngoai le la co nhung mon ma ai cung gat dau ngon ca.

Vi cai j cung mang tinh tuong doi, va de bi anh huong boi kno chu quan, nen ta cung de pham sai lam khi danh gia con nguoi. Co the cung con nguoi do, nhung minh chi biet mot phan rat nho. Chang han neu e biet cau chuyen dang sau cau hoi cua chi hom nay, co le e se thay ghe so chi la khac. Vay thi chi la ai? La cai nguoi ngoi noi chuyen ve mot anh ban tai hoa moi mat voi e may tieng tren xe, hay la cai con nguoi co nhung ham muon het suc tam thuong ma e chua tung nghe den? 

K, chi k la ai trong so do, ma dung hon chi la tat ca. Chi co ca hai con nguoi do hop lai, chi moi la chi.

Quay lai diem dau tien. Neu mot ng ban lam e soc vi phat hien ra, thuong ta co xu huong dua ra nhung ly giai hop ly de thay thong cam duoc cho ban minh. It nhat do la xu huong cua chi. De cam thong voi ban be vi minh tin ho co ly do de nhu the.

Nhung neu la mot nguoi la, thi hinh nhu kho cam thong hon, va vi the cung critical, demanding hon. Nhu the that ra rat trai logic. Vi mot ng la, co nghia la kha nang ta biet ng do, chi dua tren nhung hieu biet vo cung it oi (vi du dien mao) lai cang thap. Va vi the nguy co la ta phien dien. Va vi the, dang le ta can phai do luong hon.

Nhung hinh nhu cuoc song lai di theo chieu nguoc lai.

Song vi the ma kho?

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